Relationship - Others shared

Boy, you started talking to a girl online. At first you thought nothing more. Then just friends.
You started talking day and night constantly. She made you smile.
You decide to meet each other. You instantly fell for her. Kept telling yourself, she's the one.
You carried on talking, met again and again. You became best friends.
One night, you decided to tell her how you felt. You waited and waited for a reply...
She replied, she said she feels she same.
You asked her to be yours. She types her reply, she said yes. You went to see her.
Couple months went by, you were still strong.
A year passed.
Arguments came. You always got through them.
Whenever you messed up, she always forgave you. And whenever she messed up, you did the same and forgave her.
But you started loosing feelings. Well at least that's what you thought.
She was starting to feel unwanted. But she didn't want to leave you, because she couldn't. She needs you.
You didn't leave her, because you couldn't bare to see her with anybody else.
She didn't know what to do. Cried most nights.
You got fed up, it was too much stress. You left her...
Months went by, you were happy as anything, a whole weight lifted from your shoulders.
Yet she was hurting.
After a while, somebody who made her happy.
But one night, you started to think... you miss her. But will never get her back. She is gone.
Now you are the one crying at night, knowing she belongs to somebody else. All that's left are memories.
You sat at home and you decide to text her. You wait for a reply. Days go by, she reads and doesn't reply.
Until one night, you get a phone call, it's from her. You answer... She is in tears. You ask whatsup, she tells you her and her boyfriends problems, so you help her out, you help them sort everything.
But deep down, you miss her like mad. Don't you? You lost the person you intended to keep, thoughts running through your mind, she is your world, your world in somebody else's arms.
You love her, don't you? You keep trying to tell yourself you don't care but really you do.


-- Shared by Relationship Goals, Facebook

Trust

With got this picture from somewhere and it's emotional stirring. Many thoughts are flooding in my mind. 

She has the key to save him and change their situation. Regardless of how they got in this predicament, she still holds the key. Now she could give him the key and "set him free" but she doesn't trust him. She thinks if he could get away by any means he would and leave her to die. But he wants to save her regardless of their situation. He will stretch himself far and thin in order to save her to have her to hold her. However he is powerless to change anything under his circumstance but he tried so much and unfortunately it will never be enough. Not enough to make her trust him and not enough to reach her. He would break his own chains if he could but he simply can't. And even though she is the one dying, she has to most power. She could save them both but she would die before she trust him. And he will eventually die without the key. 

Why do people trust only family instead of their beloved one. People thought there's no conflict in between family but this thoughts will never be "applied" on their spouse. Many- money, privacy, secrets. I'm definitely not the one with this mindset. Family love you inevitably, that's an inevitability in the basis of consanguinity but whereby beloved one will not do you any harm without a basis of consanguinity. This point deserves special emphasis. 

To be Mrs Lee

Marrying young is not the end of my freedom. It means I want to travel and see the world, but with him by my side. It means I still like drinking in cafe and shopping in mall but stumbling home with him at 11pm and eating instant noodle at kitchen. It means I know that I want to kiss those lips every morning, and every night before bed. If you see marriage as the end of your freedom, you're doing it wrong.

I did sincerely appreciated that time brought him to my side as previous said. It's though not at the earlier right timing but at least, not the last, it's still not too late. Every single moment that I was spending with him is valuable indeed. I still believe there is no true love does existed but, I believe that all the delightful moments I had with him are absolutely freaking real. 

People are the fuck to commended that marrying at aged 20 something is too young and it shouldn't be. I was delighted to hear this owing to themselves might not be able to marrying young. What to caused? Perhaps is the unstable relationship or financial issue. Thus, I'm the luckiest lady among others. I do not have to apologize for saying this fuxking truth. Was expressing sincerely. 

#Clear & Clean

Business is based on 'give and take'. Trade is based on 'give and take'. Relationships are based on 'love'. And love is giving. You don’t expect a 'take' in love. This 'give and take' is violence. Because if there is a 'give and take', then you always ‘take’ more than 'give', as it happens in a business.


In love, you don’t bother about taking. When there is a need to take, you just take. Have you ever observed that when you are with your friends? If you have really been friends with someone, then you don’t bother about asking, you just take. If there is something kept on his table and you want to take it, you don’t seek his permission. You just take. And if you seek his permission, then it is some kind of a business arrangement. Then it is not love. 


Relationships are not based on 'give and take'. The real relationship is one which is based on 'relating' and not on 'give and take'. And the basis of 'relating' is attention. The basis of ‘relating’ is presence and love. When own true love does existed, I believe there's no 'right' and 'wrong' in between of each other.

Appreciated

Amazing own life by found someone to be love and to love. Real feeling is just like you would focus on him, rather than focus on what you're getting and how you're being treated. Sometimes, or I should say most of the times, you would even truly feel good by just seeing his smile.

Saying "I love you" isn't the only way to let someone know how you feel. Pay him a compliment, a sincere compliment from the heart can be a subtle way to letting your loved one know how much you admire him.

Sometimes the ones you care most for are the ones you neglect the most. It's easy to forget about the feelings and aspirations of those closest to you as you move around them daily and sometimes take them for granted. Appreciation of their presence in your life is always something worth stopping for, to take the time to reflect over and will rejuvenate the strength of your relationships.

Forget yesterday, it has already forgotten you. Don't sweat tomorrow, you haven't even met. Instead, open your eyes and your heart to a truly precious gift, today. Be thankful for what you have, you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough.

I sincerely thank someone who's loving me.

Walked out from the past traumatic experience, and everything be as much wonderful as it could. Looking forward next step in life, which added someone in, I do believe that would be much awesome yet brilliant. I did not neglect, and I will never neglect. Do whatever I can, provide whatever I have. Truly appreciated.

#Good Friday - Gossip Talk

Hi my fellow readers, greetings from EE, a very nice day indeed and today is Good Friday. Today I went shopping, felt good because it's a good weather in Singapore. Not too shiny, gentlest breeze kissed on skin, no rain. Was taking MRT and bus alone, I was thinking like "life is just as simple as good". 

Today is Good Friday, crowd almost everywhere in Singapore. And I found a place with lesser crowd, bought a cup of hot green tea latte, started blogging. 

Bright light coming through the windows make me feeling sleepy, out of sudden that bits and pieces of conversation somebody had just days before came drifting back to me. 

"xxx just got a new boyfriend! Heard that he is rich enough!" A said.

"I saw she had carry Chanel bag and one YSL" B said. 

"All these type of girls want is only money la, bullshit the so called love" A said.

"Love or money?" B asked. 

Drop my gaze on my hand phone, no comment. I got some thoughts about that, I was just did not give any comment.

Pardon me, seem like going to start a gossip topic. 

Excuse me to say something, "All those girls want is only money, money, and still, money. The so called Love is bullshit."

I ever knew few girls, they got own boyfriend and of course everyone of them is rich. Used to wear branded stuffs from top to the bottom. 

You know that's even funniest, example as a girl had posted a photo of a cup of coffee with showing off her Chanel purse which put beside the coffe cup and captioned that post as "High tea alone". This is just an example, but you know what is it meant to be. Obviously what they really want to get but even still pretending like they're not. 

It's good if your boyfriend is willing to buy you a Chanel, but being honest to say that Chanel was just meant so little to him, as long as he was seeking to have sex with you, and also, you're willing to do it. Concluded about this matter, it wasn't a healthy love relationship, but just a deal. 

Of course I am blogging with no confense. It's all my thoughts and I do believe many people think the same as mine. 

Anyway, no point with spending man's money to buy your luxurious wants. 

Make your own financial stable, have an own independent life ahead. 

Valentine's Day @ Greeting from beloved one

Such a belated blogging about the Valentine's Day. I was wondering how is you guys' Valentine's Day?

Valentine's Day is also called as Saint Valentine's Day, its observances are actually sending greeting cards and gift, dating, church services. A day was first associated with romantic love. 

I have never ever celebrate Valentine's Day with beloved one in before. But this year's, I met a special one yet the first one in life. Glad and much appreciated that. 

Exactly I'm not a rose lover, I only favorited tulip. And what's called coincident is the first bouquet I received was tulips bouquet. Thus, as I knew this bouquet meaning as "All I Want Is You". Definitely surprised me all the way. Accepted this blessful greeting as well, I wish I can be more happier ahead. 

Valentine's Bouquet from:

FarEastFlora.SG

555 Thomson Road Singapore 298140

Love in the life & Best song of the month

Dear readers, end of the December, end of the year, are you get ready for the coming whole new year? I do have so many thoughts and feelings for this year 2014, erm...sadness, disappointments, heart broken. Yes indeed, literally I didn't have any real happiness in year 2014 somehow. But finally, it's going to be end. I do hope everything goes smooth and happiness start from year 2015, as...I am a golden single lady. I don't have any Mr be my life companion, be stronger, materialistic, cheerful ever. If anyone of you were same as me, so be my fellow follower and take me as your role model maybe? *Kind of kidding but sound serious indeed.

Okay. Go to the point of this post, it's about music. Oww I found one new chinese song, I favorited it, marked as my top playlist in song album.

算什么男人 - 周杰伦

All that right, I was cried for more than 15 times in total when listened to this song and I played it more than 40 times. If you experienced something heart broken once, you could feel it as it had happened to yourself.
Honestly, the person whom came into your mind while listening to this song, you loving him/her indeed, stop lying to yourself anymore. We just be that straight forward, doesn't matter for our past stories. Nobody does care.

Look back to memoir, a true love robber that appeared in your life once. Do you hate him/her?
Why do you do not hate so? Since heart broken so deeply.
Why did you hating for? Since he/she was your love mate once.
Right? I bet you can't even give any explanation.
But believe me,
the deep you hating on and indicated the more you love once;
the more painful you suffering from and indicated the more you still loving.

Do not try to pull back anyone you love whom dumped and leave you. It's not because of any so called ego, worthiness, but because of he/she is being happier without you.
But okay, by the way I was blogging about after split up, so let's share about something to those couple which being in a relationship. What does this song meant is ask you do not give up on someone that you really loving to. An awful feeling ever that you can feel if something important has been missed in whole life. What is the point for have a split up actually?
How I hope I can back to be together with someone I loving to. I don't even know anything I did wrong, anything not good I was being on that time, what's the reason for been dumped, I am excruciating about these.
Why do harm to your mate for? Stop it if you doing so, give yourself and others a new year without such sadness. No point for flirting, everybody deserve to have respect from lover. Once you love, don't stop it then, don't hurt people as I bet you felt how awful it is.
Do not be a love robber, do not step into anybody's life if you knew you will leave in one day.
Have a whole new year and ever.

Post going too long with not important points, that's just my own opinion as I am feeling moody right here, in front of the desktop and listening to this song.